My Loving Husband Passed Unexpectedly

So sorry you have lost your life partner. I know he will be missed but I hope each tear that comes to your eye will help you remember what you had and be followed immediately by a release and eagerness to continue in the life you both built but which only you can carry forward now.
 
hollydolly said:
How are you feeling today SB?....this day, wheatever number day it is since he passed... I'm sure yu know to the hour how long its been. How are you coping on a daily basis? 💐
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I'm feeling sad every day, I miss him so much. He would want me to be strong and cope as best as I can, which I am doing. I think of him all the time, every day brings more tears whenever I'm reminded of our love and the things we did together during our marriage.

I am grateful I have the dog and the cat who he also loved and who loved him....it helps. I'm grateful that I have quite a few neighbors who have given me their numbers and said they would be there for me if I needed them in any way.

My husband's best friend from childhood, who has been living in the same state with us for a long time, visited with his wife. He will be there for me if I need support or help with anything financial regarding bank account changes or upcoming taxes, which I have no experience in doing myself. My husband always took care of everything with my blessing, so I'm happy I have friends who loved him to lean on now that he's gone.

I'm coping better than I thought really, thought I'd be a constant crying emotional wreck....close, but not quite. ;) Hubby would want me to keep on living my life and making the best of it, and I'm trying to do that. I've had several dreams of him, and sad or happy, I welcome more. He was, and still is, a big part of my existence.

Thanks for thinking of me Holly. Hugs, my friend. 🧡
 
SeaBreeze said:
I'm feeling sad every day, I miss him so much. He would want me to be strong and cope as best as I can, which I am doing. I think of him all the time, every day brings more tears whenever I'm reminded of our love and the things we did together during our marriage.

I am grateful I have the dog and the cat who he also loved and who loved him....it helps. I'm grateful that I have quite a few neighbors who have given me their numbers and said they would be there for me if I needed them in any way.

My husband's best friend from childhood, who has been living in the same state with us for a long time, visited with his wife. He will be there for me if I need support or help with anything financial regarding bank account changes or upcoming taxes, which I have no experience in doing myself. My husband always took care of everything with my blessing, so I'm happy I have friends who loved him to lean on now that he's gone.

I'm coping better than I thought really, thought I'd be a constant crying emotional wreck....close, but not quite. ;) Hubby would want me to keep on living my life and making the best of it, and I'm trying to do that. I've had several dreams of him, and sad or happy, I welcome more. He was, and still is, a big part of my existence.

Thanks for thinking of me Holly. Hugs, my friend. 🧡
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I'm so pleased to hear that you have people/friends that you can lean on when and if necessary, especially when it comes to physical things like banking problems etc. That's a huge weight off your shoulders. The love of your animals and from them is another blessing.. ...and I hope you know that , whenever you're feeling like talking about your husband, whenever you're feeling the pain of his loss so acutely you can hardly bear to feel it..

...that if it helps to talk, I hope you will know to come here.. this home that you helped build and create for all of us so many years ago, and whom you've been here for...for so many of us during our own trials over the years and listened to us........ and know there will be someone who will be here to listen for you..🤗🤗
 


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