Colleen
Senior Member
- Location
- Pennsylvania
One thing my attorney said to me that stuck in my brain was..."Just because they're his (my husband's) kids doesn't make them yours legally. You don't owe them anything." So, in the end, his kids won't get anything and my son will get $10. I've designated the rest to charities mostly locally but one to a bigger national charity. I don't have anyone to be an executor so the attorney suggested an local foundation that will distribute funds, get court orders for savings/checking accounts, etc.Same here, I have one son and the relationship is horrible after I divorced. I have a paid for home and an investment portfolio. And absolutely no one to leave it to. At present a friend of my is on my will. If I die she will be in for a pretty nice surprise... haha.. I am 71 and never would have thought it would be a problem giving away money. But, it is a major problem for me now.. I bet there are many many here in the same boat.
If you don't have an estate attorney or a will, be sure to do that ASAP and get advice from him how to handle matters. You'll feel much better, believe me.