Are you hard to live with?

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fuzzybuddy

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If you have an "ex" or two hanging around, you know they were no good miserable "so-n-so" s. But maybe the halo on your head slipped, every once in a while?????? Are you hard to live with?
To be honest, my ex became a gambling addict; but at the same time, I was in mega pain from back surgery, and I don't think I was Prince Charming.
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I'm not easy to live with if my co-habitant wants us to be attached at the hip, is a slob, and/or needs to know where I'm going, when I'll be back, and where I've been, what I did, and why I took so long when I do get back. I hate that sh!t.

(actually, I wouldn't be hard to live with because I'd either leave and not come back or I'd make sure you do)

Michelle and I are both easy to live with because we leave each other alone. But we also take care of each other and support each other in every way and love each other 100%. Based on my experience, she's a rare find.
 
I’ve never had a halo on my head to start with and been with my husband for 35 years. He’s the happiest I’ve ever seen him. He goes fishing when he wants, spends time doing woodworking in his garage and goes ATV’ing when he wants. He sends text to his friends and has them over to our house whenever he wants.( which isn’t often and he always discusses it with me first )

My husband and I get along quite well. We rarely argue but when we do we ‘try’ and discuss it like mature adults. I’ve got issues and my husband has a temper so we don’t always see eye to eye.

When we have visitors, I treat them as kind as I possibly can. Thats the best I can do.

Note: We sometimes have visitors here for 5 days and I don’t lose it. lol 😂
 
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There’s no one who doesn’t have faults. It’s just better if you choose to ignore them. They’re not a hill worth dying on. My husband and I don’t fight. In over 30 years I could count on one hand any serious disagreements. With my ex we probably had 30 arguments by noon, so I do know how to do battle.
 
Murrmurr said:
I'm not easy to live with if my co-habitant wants us to be attached at the hip, is a slob, and/or needs to know where I'm going, when I'll be back, and where I've been, what I did, and why I took so long when I do get back. I hate that sh!t.
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this is absolutleyme ^^^^^^^...I cannot stand anyone questioning me as to why , where and how long I'll be ...
 
I get along with my ex just fine. She remarried years later, but they are both good people and I go over there for Christmas most years so the kids can make just one stop.

Sometimes if she's watching our grandson she'll call me to come over or meet them at a neighborhood park.

We've never been unpleasant with each other. Even 10 years after we divorced she asked me to come over and check out a bad infection she got after a stupid facelift. She was already dating her now-husband, but we have different skillsets.
 
For sure. I have the stereotypical Italian temper and sometimes it gets the better of me. I am also introverted to the point that I think people see me as aloof.
I think I am best in my current situation..in an apartment by myself with the option to hide away or go out and interact. I get upset with others often
 
Apparently I am. I don't bother anybody, but minding my own business still bothers some people. My oldest son's wife sent out a snapchat thanking everyone for their birthday wishes, then added, if you didn't, you're dead to me. Good Lord, don't you get enough attention? I wished her Happy Birthday. Sigh.🙄
 
fuzzybuddy said:
my ex became a gambling addict; but at the same time, I was in mega pain from back surgery, and I don't think I was Prince Charming.
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I wrote
these lyrics in one of the songs I penned...

"Maybe things went too far
And I was no Saint
But you played hard
I think about you
Without you...

I'm falling to pieces
What went wrong I don't know
I'm falling to pieces
Finding it hard to let go"
 

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