Repondering
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I'm Andrew and I've always been known and addressed as Andy. I'm comfortable with both and cannot think of a name I'd prefer to go by.
Sweet, Calamity, Jane Doe, Plain Jane or Jane the talking Horses arss ?I would choose to be named Jane; I've always liked that name. I feel like a Jane.
Your insight is amazing!you should have been born in Scotland, every 3rd guy is called James or Jimmy
I like the name Carl, (you're right it's originally germanic)...probably because I have a friend with that name..Your insight is amazing! Our last name is Cameron...and my Dad's name was James! You can see even more why I do not like my first name...Carl! I think it is German or? But, as I mentioned it was my late grandfathers name, and I did love him very much...
He reminds me of a kid who was referred to as The Mummy due to his extreme ugliness. He wasn't physically imposing, but he would always threaten to brandish his knife on anyone calling him that.Yep, same here. Hoover looked forward to being teased about it because he loved to fight. He was a big kid, and he was a vicious fighter, so it only took a couple quick arse-whoopins, and no more teasing. All the boys at school would warn the new kids...I remember that so well.
He actually likes his name. I do, too. It suits him....if you don't think about vacuum cleaners. (if you do...run! )
One of my best friends at school was called Marian... no one ever called her anything other than Marian...Although I can’t think of another name I’d want, I’ve never liked my name.
I don’t like it because people never remember it. Everyone calls me MaryAnn or Miriam or Marium.
you're not stuck with it, you can call yourself anything you like, and be known by it to everyone, as long as youre not using it to defraud anyone, you can from ths day forward be known as your previous name, or any name you choose and it's perfectly legal. Google it, you'll see how to do it, it;s very easy...I can add that I hate the sound of my first name with my last name. My last name was changed to my stepfather's when I was 7. We were never asked. My first name sounds much better with my original last name. They both end in the same vowel.
I never got married, so I have been stuck with this last name. It rather short, simple and some people would think cool. I just hate it.
My last name and my brother's were changed. My oldest brother was 18 and his name was never change of course. Just us minors who had no choice. So my oldest brother has a different last name.
I am surprised! I have two cousins who retained their surnames of Rodriguez, even though their foster father's surname was Miranda.I can add that I hate the sound of my first name with my last name. My last name was changed to my stepfather's when I was 7. We were never asked. My first name sounds much better with my original last name. They both end in the same vowel.
I never got married, so I have been stuck with this last name. It rather short, simple and some people would think cool. I just hate it.
My last name and my brother's were changed. My oldest brother was 18 and his name was never change of course. Just us minors who had no choice. So my oldest brother has a different last name.
I have considered going back to my original last name. My mother would have flipped. But then again, she loved to flip. I don't know what my stepfather would think. Or I'd wait till he was gone and also wonder, at my age, if it's worth the hassle. There would be some.you're not stuck with it, you can call yourself anything you like, and be known by it to everyone, as long as youre not using it to defraud anyone, you can from ths day forward be known as your previous name, or any name you choose and it's perfectly legal. Google it, you'll see how to do it, it;s very easy..
Then by all means do not question your name and do not call your parents stupid. I have done neither. I was named after my two grandfathers, who both died before I was born. I carry that memory with me.In our culture questioning one's name is sacrilegious. It's like calling our parents "stupid".
Frank Zappa’s four children are named:
- Moon Unit (female, born on September 28, 1967)
- Dweezil (male, b. September 5, 1969)
- Ahmet Emuukha Rodan (male, b. May 15, 1974, and named for Ahmet Ertegun)
- Diva Thin Muffin Pigeen (female, b. July 30, 1979)
Then by all means do not question your name and do not call your parents stupid. I have done neither. I was named after my two grandfathers, who both died before I was born. I carry that memory with me.
OTOH, if somebody named me Moon Unit……. As much as I love my parents and grandparents, I would probably get it changed. I would never call my parents stupid for any reason.
Andy's a good name.. as is Andrew.. good strong male nameI'm Andrew and I've always been known and addressed as Andy. I'm comfortable with both and cannot think of a name I'd prefer to go by.
Remy, ....remy..stop... you're living your life for this horrible stepfather... stop... who cares what he thinks, why would he even have to know anyway...I have considered going back to my original last name. My mother would have flipped. But then again, she loved to flip. I don't know what my stepfather would think. Or I'd wait till he was gone and also wonder, at my age, if it's worth the hassle. There would be some.
Stepfather was a provider but never a dad or protector. Bio-dad a jerk and deadbeat so they both suck in different ways. Just pick a random name? I could. I don't know what I'll ever do, probably nothing.
And my first passport had both names on it because I was a minor and I was never adopted by my stepfather and there was nothing done legally to change it. When I got another passport in my 20's, I asked if both names would be on it and the woman stated "no, you're an adult, you can call yourself anything you want."