When I'm counting calories like I am now I use My Fitness Pal and it almost always states a measurement, so I use a little scale and measuring cups.
For example, last night we had salmon, broccoli and baked sweet potatoes. I measured out a cup of broccoli and didn't worry about whether it was level or heaping, but I weighed the salmon to get 4 oz and weighed my 6.5 oz sweet potato. My son's and husband's were over 9 oz which just shows what a difference you can have. The thing I'm most careful about is fats. I used exactly 1 Tablespoon of butter with the whole meal.
I like the weighing and measuring part because it makes me feel in control, what gives me anxiety is something like trying to estimate the meals when we eat out.
For example, last night we had salmon, broccoli and baked sweet potatoes. I measured out a cup of broccoli and didn't worry about whether it was level or heaping, but I weighed the salmon to get 4 oz and weighed my 6.5 oz sweet potato. My son's and husband's were over 9 oz which just shows what a difference you can have. The thing I'm most careful about is fats. I used exactly 1 Tablespoon of butter with the whole meal.
I like the weighing and measuring part because it makes me feel in control, what gives me anxiety is something like trying to estimate the meals when we eat out.