Murrmurr
SF VIP
- Location
- Sacramento, California
If we were all qualified to assess mental health issues such as Compulsive Controlling Behavior, that could work.My take..., if we try to understand "why" people (including us), act and behave a particular way as much as we dislike that behavior, we would not get too worked up and try our best to grant grace by sometimes, swallowing our saliva and saving tongue muscle (staying silent). We should also understand, that the universe only boomerang who and what we are.
Lilac just wants to enjoy hosting her dinner parties without this lady hijacking them to satisfy a compulsion to control the environment and appear as though she is better at doing parties than Lilac.