hollydolly
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Just been checking on DD's dad, the one who has prostate cancer and emphysema .. he's just been released from a week's hospital stay after his lungs flooded. That has to be terrifying..
Apparently this has happened before several years ago... but he can't get out and about on his own. now, has stopped driving through lack of confidence he tells me,. i told him he should sell his car before it loses much more value and just use uber on the very odd occasions he needs to go out.. Doctors, etc..not sure if he will, because being as poorly as he is, everything is a mammoth task.
He won't let anyone else do anything for him if it involves them going into his flat and that includes me.. he says I would be horrified at how unkempt it's become... and he's very ashamed of it. I've told him I'll clean it for him,,..but no .. he tried getting people in to clean and then decided he couldn't even allow them to see it.. so it's all very difficult..
Apparently this has happened before several years ago... but he can't get out and about on his own. now, has stopped driving through lack of confidence he tells me,. i told him he should sell his car before it loses much more value and just use uber on the very odd occasions he needs to go out.. Doctors, etc..not sure if he will, because being as poorly as he is, everything is a mammoth task.
He won't let anyone else do anything for him if it involves them going into his flat and that includes me.. he says I would be horrified at how unkempt it's become... and he's very ashamed of it. I've told him I'll clean it for him,,..but no .. he tried getting people in to clean and then decided he couldn't even allow them to see it.. so it's all very difficult..
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